6 Signs He Is Thinking About You And What To Do Next?:- I’m going to be sharing with you six secret signs that a man is thinking about you more than you know.
I’m excited to share these with you and make sure you read this full article cause I’m then going to tell you exactly what you need to do about it.
- 6 Signs He Is Thinking About You
- What To Do When He Is Thinking About You?
How do you know when you’re on a guy’s mind?
How do you know like the tip of the iceberg that, that little thing that he does means he is thinking about you under the surface a whole lot more?
6 Signs He Is Thinking About You
1. He constantly watches your social stories.
He watches your stories constantly on Facebook, Instagram, and Snapchat.
How do you know you’re on someone’s mind, but when you’re getting his attention?
And how do you know if you’re getting his attention because he doesn’t always call you, he doesn’t always tell you, he’s not always asking you out?
Life will be very simple if that was the case. Many times when we’re thinking of someone, especially us guys when we don’t want to admit it, we are watching from afar. And we do that these days through stories.
A guy watching your Insta stories, your Snapchat, your Facebook, all these types of stories is a dead set sign that you are on his mind more than he cares to admit.
2. Your Last Interaction Ended Poignantly.
Now, what do I mean by this? Well, Daniel Pink wrote a really interesting book that I recommend if you want to be more productive, you go and grab.
The book talks about the art of timing. Everything from our rhythm throughout the days, and how certain tasks the better in the morning and the afternoon, right through to how hospitals typically perform better at certain times of the day.
Most importantly, and most relevant to us today though, Daniel talked about the importance of cognitive landmarks:
And Daniel found out that the end of anything, of a movie, of a relationship, of anything at all, leaves you with a significantly higher proportion of your impression of the overall event.
For example, Daniel found that if a man was bad, his entire life, but then became a charitable donor in his last few years, people tended to perceive him well, as opposed to if a man was an incredibly charitable donor and lovely person his whole life but then turned into a f*cktard his last few years, people would perceive him badly.
Endings have huge power. And the emotion of poignancy is all about emotional happiness with a tinge of sadness.
It’s a complex emotion, but it usually comes in relationships if you’ve set a boundary if you’ve walked away if you showed some kind of self or done something that makes the guy see you in high regard.
If the last interaction you had with him was something you did that was powerful for you, when you stood up, when you did that, then you can pretty much guarantee that you’re on that guy’s mind a lot more than you might think.
3. Mutual Contacts Say He’s Mentioned You.
Your friends or people you know, say that he has mentioned you. I remember years ago, and I didn’t even catch myself doing it at the time.
And I only realize that looking back was that we had a mutual friend, my ex and I, and I would constantly ask the mutual friend, “How is my ex, is she doing well? How’re things going with her?” And I do it because part of me secretly hoped that the friend might talk about me with the ex. Now, I know at this stage that that wasn’t the brightest idea, but I found myself talking to mutual friends.
So if you do have mutual friends, if you do know people together and they say those people say that the guy has been talking about you with them, that is a sure sign you are on his mind a lot more than he cares to admit.
4. He Sends You Stupid Shit.
I see this all the time. If a guy is sending you stupid shit, it’s his way of saying, “Hey, I’m thinking about you. Just going to send this, do you think about me.”
That’s what guys do. Read this full article because I’m going to tell you exactly what you need to do about this.
5. He Yo-Yos In And Out Of Your Life.
I know when I hear a story where two people are yo-yo-ing in and out of each other’s lives, that there have to be some elements of compulsiveness. There, there has to be a kind of addictive element that he keeps coming back and then leaving.
Something’s not working, but there’s that compulsion, that impulse there.
Now, you might be thinking, “Well, that’s great, He’s addicted to me. That’s exactly what I want.”
The problem is addiction isn’t always healthy. While having a guy addicted to you can seem like a nice thing, it can mean that that connection is very unhealthy.
And when I see codependency, that’s going in and out, that can often represent that there’s an unhealthy addiction there.
And the fact that yes, he may be thinking about you a lot, but is it for the right reasons? Is it in the way that’s going to make him step up to be a partner? Or is it going to block you from the man that deserves you?
Again, stick around to the end of this article. I’m going to tell you what to do about this.
6. He Drunk Texts You.
Any kind of drugs or alcohol, lower his inhibitions and raise dopamine in his brain, so he’s feeling silky and connected to you. The problem is what it’s doing is it’s bringing out his subconscious, which is not necessarily a good thing if he can’t do it while he’s conscious.
If a guy is drug texting you or drunk texting you or texting you under any kind of influence, it’s a sure sign that you’re on his mind a lot more than he cares to admit.
What To Do When He Is Thinking About You?
I want to ask you a serious question. What sort of man do you want?
Do you want the guy who’s in and out, where you find yourself questioning yourself, where you feel uncertain all the time not sure if he’s coming or going, or do you want a solid stable guy who’s going to be there for you where you don’t have to think about these things?
- What do you want?
- What are your actions saying?
- Which types of guys are you going after?
Because if it’s the second type of guy, if it’s the solid secure type of guy that you want, then it’s on you to filter that in your life. So you may have a guy who’s thinking about you a little bit. You may have a guy who you’re on his mind a lot.
Here’s what you need to do:
- You need to tell that man, to step up,
- You need to give him a sign whether over texts, call in person that this is where my level is at, if you’re not here, you’re zero. He doesn’t get to choose in between.
- You can send a text, “Hey, it’d be great to hang instead of meme trading. Let me know when you’re free.”
- You can send him a voicemail, “Hey, it’d be great to hang out in person soon. Let me know if that suits you.”
Whatever you do, make it clear. Make it clear you want the guy to step up. And if he doesn’t, I want to say this because this is so important, if he doesn’t, then he is not the man for you.
Just cause the guy is thinking about you, just because you may be on a guy’s mind a lot does not mean that he has the willingness or ability to step up and be that man for you.
So give him every opportunity to do so, open your heart and let him know, and then walk the f*ck away if he doesn’t.