My Husband Is Financially Irresponsible
My Husband Is Financially Irresponsible and he doesn’t give me money or doesn’t give me all the money.
First of all, these are two different problems if your husband doesn’t give you money at all! Then he is not your husband.
So he doesn’t perform his duty well, the first thing you should think about is whether you need such a husband or not.
My Boyfriend Or Husband Doesn’t Help Me Financially
The second grade of this problem is when your husband doesn’t give you enough money.
Then you have to think about what to do to persuade him to give you more. Now I will tell you what to do.
The third grade of this problem is “When your husband doesn’t give you all the money and you feel that it is necessary for the family“. For example, you feel that you are a better manager for your budgets, or you feel that if you give your husband money he will spend in a day, in two days, in three days, or a week, and you have to live a month through.
The first principle that is applied to all problems in a family, you should talk about them.
You shouldn’t demand, you shouldn’t shout, or you shouldn’t tell rude things to your husband or boyfriend. You should talk as equals.
If you have a problem with money talk about money.
The second thing, explain your position and support it with reasons.
So your position is that your husband or your boyfriend should give you the position of a manager of your budget, let’s call it so. Then give him the reason.
I will give you several reasons that you may talk to your husband about.
The first reason is that it is a woman’s calling to be a keeper of a house. And to keep a house, a woman needs means so she needs money.
If your husband doesn’t give you money he deprives you of your prime role as a woman.
The second reason is tradition. Do you know about the tradition when at a wedding a woman gave her husband a silver ring and a man gave his wife a golden ring?
- A silver ring symbolizes that a woman is pure
- The golden ring symbolizes the simple fact that a man gives his wife his money his finances
The third reason you may give to the husband is trust. So if your husband doesn’t give you money he doesn’t trust you well.
Does he? Because if he does, he will give you money. He trusts you that you will be a good manager to his budget, he trusts you that you will spend your family’s money well. Does he trust you?
The fourth reason you can give your husband proving that he will be a better manager to your family’s budget is that “women are generally better managers to families budgets“.
What Men Usually Do To The Money?
- They go and spend them.
What A Normal Wife Does To The Money?
- She plans her budgets
- She decides how much she will spend on this and on that.
- And the rest is usually saved.
So if you give your husband these reasons I hope that it will help you to solve your family problem with money.
How To Leave A Marriage Or Your Husband With No Money
NO! You should not leave your husband at this point of life…. Beacuse he is already mentaly frustrated and depressed because of no money and he is hiding all his pain from you just to make sure that you wont get hurt or disappointed on him.
So you have to stay with your husband and you have to help him in his financial condition.